Marriages are made in heaven.
Marriage is a coherent, coordinated,relevant,rhythmic ,progression.
If there is a slight tug here, a different pull there, a weak sign of discontent, a predominant note of anger, a prescribed report of shortcomings, an uninvited interference of the elders, a statutory reference of detailed proceedings of daily life to the parents, will jitter the sanctity of wedlock
Companionship and perfect understanding formulate a successful marriage.
Trivia and snobbishness ruin the relationship.
Young couple should emulate a friendship devoid of egoism, selfishness,and possessiveness.
A flower looks beautiful,when it is in its bloom.
It is best ,when not plucked,since its charm is experienced by most..
It is better, when it adorns a living room , as its grace is enjoyed by many.
It is good, when it decorates a bride, because it adds glamour to the person.
Wedlock is best when it is allowed to blossom.when it is left untouched by others.
The, two individuals , who take the oath of marriage, should pledge to live happily,radiate joyous bliss,bring forth worthy off springs, and celebrate the marriage embellishment
Meenas Poems 
3 replies on “Wrecked marriages.”
We are all told that time heals all wounds.. that’s crap. Click on the dates to hear the messages left by Betsy Y Feliciano, Dan’s paramour.
VOICE MAIL MESSAGES FROM BETSY Y. FELICIANO
Received September at 7:59 p.m.
Hi Dee, it’s me I didn’t answer your call. I’m sorry I didn’t answer your calls, but I’m leaving this message because I don’t think you will call me back. But talk to Danny because this is not his fault and he doesn’t need me he needs you. He wants you. He needs to talk and rectify this because I am not in the picture. You don’t have to call me back. You need to get with him because it is not his fault, okay. Thanks, Bye.
Next message from phone number 630-428-0512 received September 12th at 5:49 a.m.
Hey it’s me it is about 10 to 6 and I am getting ready to go to work so I just don’t feel like I can go on like this. All right, bye.
Next message from phone number 630-271-4204 received September 12th at 6: p.m.
Um Doris, this is Jeff Simeral with the Lisle police department. I have just recently taken a report involving Betsy Feliciano. Apparently there has been some letters were sent and phone calls made of a treating nature. I need to speak with you about that. Give me a call back at 630-271-4200. And again the name is Simeral. Thank you.
Next message from phone number 630-983-8023 received September 13th at 7:12 p.m.
Hey this is Betsy. Danny is not telling you things he should be telling you. He told me you left and takes medication and there are things he should be telling you and you are probably going crazy. He has lied to you and the only reason he is trying to hold on to everything is because of that house in Santa Fe. We have been sleeping with each other since he left and came home from Santa Fe. I have been cooking for him, cleaning for him and doing everything for him. Taking care of him and when I couldn’t take it anymore because he have not been honest you but that is why you attacked me. He need and I needed to be open and honest with you so you wouldn’t believe it. And he told me he would handle it. If you are the smart woman I think you are, listen to what I am saying to you. I am done with him. He is a spineless individual who only wants that house in Santa Fe. And that is why he used me and he is also using you. I am sorry this all occurred. I had no idea what kind of person I was dealing with, but when I tried to be open with you he wouldn’t let me answer the phone. I have been at his house when you called, each time you called. I hope you do something with this I hope you use it for your own good because the house in Santa Fe is what holds him to you. He does not care about me. He cares about money and that house. So I hope this helps you. I hope you can listen to it because I know he is calling you crying right now that I am calling you because I told him that he can’t be honest with you, I will be honest with you. You need to know. Okay, bye.
Next message from phone number 630-428-0512 received September 13th at 7:48 p.m.
This is me. It’s just me.
Next message September 13th at 7:49 p.m.
If you want to talk, you have to answer the phone. I called. I have to talk to you about more things. Did Danny tell you that I was going to have a baby and that I lost it. Did he tell you that you need to know that okay. I just talked to him crying that he does not want me to talk to you. But I need to talk to you. You need to get this. I am so pissed off at him right now for hurting both of us, not just you but both of us, so if you don’t listen to these messages you are not going to know this. You can call me on my cell phone, not the house phone but call me on the cell phone. You know the number. It’s fine. Yesterday when I told the police that I didn’t want you hurt in any way and that is because today I found out and yesterday I found out something had to be terribly wrong. Today I found out the truth. You were on medication. So please give me a call back. Bye.
Next message from phone number 630-428-0512 received September 13th at 8:34 p.m.
Hi it’s me. She said give her a call.
Next message from phone number 630-856-2134 received September 17th at 8:41 p.m.
Hi Doris, this is Betsy. I’m just calling you back. You called while you were still on the road. I’m not going to call you anymore. Maybe I call you later on. I don’t care. I don’t want to disturb you. I’ll call you back. Whenever you want to talk, give me a call. I don’t have a phone in Lisle.
Next message from phone number 630-856-2103 received September 18th at 9:16 p.m.
Hi Doris, it’s me. Um I need to tell you what comes to mind all the time that Danny said that the perfect scenario is for me to be in that house because he loves me. You need to know that because he only wants that house and he does not want you and he doesn’t want me. And he does anything when he is going though separation because he is terrified that you are going to take that house from him. That is all he cares about is his money and his house. If I were in your shoes, I would take that house so fast it would make his head spin. Cause that is all he really does care about. He does not care about anyone else. He is very selfish. I really found out what kind of person he really is. Material things are more important than a human being. Dee I need to tell you that he is hiding a secret. You need to find out. It concerns me, but in time I will tell you. You need to ask him, but he will lie to you. I realize I never thought he would lie. He lies continuously he would come crying at work, crying, crying that I would come back because he loved me and that is the only reason why I went back because I would crack. It is because he did not want to be alone. He was afraid that for sure you would leave him. Anyway give me a call and we will discuss it. But remember that. Remember what he said that the best case scenario that if he had anything he ever wanted it would be me in that house and you were not included. The only reason he is going back and he wants you back is because he know you can’t ___ money once you are together and everything ___. Anyway I’ll call you soon. Bye
Next message from 630-856-2103 received September 19th at 11:28 a.m.
Hi Doris, I have called you several times and maybe you are too busy and maybe Danny is telling you not to call me because he is terrified of about what I could tell you. Anyway I’ll just leave this on the voice mail. I didn’t want to leave another message. But, ask him. Anyway I am going to tell you because I don’t think I will talk with you again after this. I definitely don’t want to talk to him every again. I am pregnant and he said he is going to Santa Fe. That tells you how much he does not care about anybody except for that house. Anyway, so that’s the deal. I don’t want to tell you over the phone like this. I wanted to tell you while you were on the other side of the secret. But anyway that’s the way it is right now. I don’t want him in my life, I don’t want to look at him. I don’t want to see him. I don’t know why he went back to that job, but he shouldn’t have. I’m not there, but I will be there soon. I don’t want to glance at him, I don’t want to look at him. So you maybe you can convince him to quit and go back to Santa Fe as soon as possible. Okay. Take care. Bye.
This is how their affair started. Dan’s paramour, Betsy Y. Feliciano of Lisle, IL, flew to Colorado in February (arriving February 2nd, departing February 6th – Room 200) for the sole purpose of consummating their illicit sexual relationship at the Holiday Inn in Wheat Ridge, CO. Before starting this illicit relationship, Betsy knew Dan was married. Prior to meeting Betsy in Colorado, she gave Dan her SBC Calling Card 1-888-330-2323 to keep in contact with her.
He then returned to Illinois, staying at the Best Western Hotel in Naperville where they continued their sexual tryst from February 23rd to March 4th.
Again, Dan returned to Illinois on March 14th where they so called met for coffee only. (Fat chance)
About March 24th a smug and arrogant Betsy called stating “I wouldn’t have your husband if you were doing what it takes to keep your man”. With that, I told her I’m laughing at both of you because I know what you are getting, but Dan does not have a clue as to what he is getting with you other than sex.”
In May they rented a house in Naperville where she hoped to move her adult daughter in, who also worked at Good Samaritan Hospital. Betsy was only interested in getting a man who could put her in a house and take care of her financially. She got the rented house, got a sex partner, but nothing else.
Betsy’s plan did not workout as she had anticipated. After all of the lies and sneaking around, their love for each other went soured because Betsy’s true colors started showing and Dan would not take her for week-end getaways, he would not spend money on her. He kept telling her that he wanted his good life back. (This did not sit well with Betsy)
The slut/paramour had the nerve to go to the Lisle Police stating she had been threatened or felt threatened. (She had been a police in Florida, therefore had her fellow person in blue call making threats on her behalf). In September Betsy, the tramp, called, no less than 14 times, leaving numerous messages sounding pathetic because all of a sudden, she could not deal with Dan’s special needs (depression and low self-esteem etc.), she had been cooking, cleaning, doing everything for him and that she was going to have a baby. Several of the calls originated from (630-357-5914), (630-856-2134), (630-856-2103) and (630-946-4389). Interestingly, one of the messages this pitiful bitch left originated from (630-983-8023) the home of a person named Don Boulter of Westmont. If he is in-fact involved with this tramp I truly feel sorry for him. Sometime during all of the “whore’s” drama, she told Dan she had found someone else; perhaps that someone else was Don.
The fat troll is twice divorced with 2 adult children. Her line to Dan was that she had not had sex in 15 yrs and he was perfect, she would not change one thing about him. (She stroked his ego real good.)
The whore lacks character and morals. Bottom line, the troll has been slithering around all of her life and this is all she knows. She is looking for a man to take care of her. By her actions, it is apparent she prefers married men as she is incapable of maintaining a viable and respectable relationship. (Remember, she is twice divorced)
As for Dan, he was extremely stupid. As a direct result of his immoral and illicit sexual relationship with Betsy, his paramour and “bitch”, he lost his good reputation, good name, credibility, self-respect, over $50,000 and much more which will be difficult to reestablish.