A community to which I belong
known for its munificence for long
a small conglomeration it be
bankers in profession they be
lived modestly all through their life
built palatial houses during their life
well, that be the activities in the past
now the role of the community is cast
difference in their outlook mostly
their prospects overturned greatly
demand dowry for their sons all the most
understandable in the Indian context
do also ask for the mother-in-law
who brought to the world a son without flaw
the latest I heard was a million in count
follows in queue other accounts
where comes the claim for the sixth month
call they “marunthu kudithal” or “theertham kudithal”
while the girl is in the family way
then arrives the child in time
the mother-in-law calls for a celebration
name the ceremony as “vilayattu petti vevu”
funded by the girl’s parents with deliberation
you would by now imagine there comes the end
nay it traverses through the bend
with many more formalities to be accomplished
as there be festivals all throughout
Deepavalli, pongal, and “thiruvizha “
throng
multiply the submissions all along
these happen almost in every household
the son becomes an investment as he grows
the revenue the mother receives is multi fold
many a people like me simply behold
not able to bring a change
any protest raised is thrown aside
the community acts ruthless in this paraphernalia
not ashamed of these transactions inter alia

One reply on “The “Murai” As They Say.”
I am an ex employee of karumuttu group. I am an admirer of customs of Nagarathar community.Their culture is appreciatable.